How I work 2019-08-20T21:05:26+00:00

To liberate your sexuality means to transform your whole being

I can not emphasize enough what the healing and liberation of my sexuality did to me and my life. Sexual energy is pure life force energy! For this reason, it has been suppressed by politics and religions for millennia.

Not anymore! We are on the verge of a big paradigm shift. We are heading towards a world where the masculine and the feminine live together in true harmony and sacred union. For this world to become reality, it is up to each and every one of us to heal the wounds of the past, to forgive one another and to level up our experience by following the path of our soul.

My heart beats for love – my heart beats for healing – my heart beats for creating the new paradigm!

I offer my guidance to women, men, and couples like you who are following the path of consciousness and I support their spiritual and sexual transformation and healing.

I have followed this very path to the deepest depths of my soul and can therefore be a reliable and trustworthy guide. On my own healing journey I only trusted those who practice what they preach and who lead by example – and this is what I do. Every minute of every day of my life.

And I can promise you that this path is as challenging as it is joyful, ecstatic and incredibly freeing.

Healing your sexuality is the most rewarding thing you can ever do for you and your life!

Why Coaching?

  • You are sick and tired of reading self-help books

  • You are searching for a way to shift your experience that works

  • You long for profound and lasting change

  • You desire a safe container to journey deep into yourself

  • You already took some effort to change but you keep falling back into old habits

  • You know that you need someone to hold you accountable

  • You want to live orgasmically instead of just having orgasms

  • You want to heal and overcome your trauma

  • Your desire a safe and reliable guide on your path of transformation

  • You wanna accelerate your sexual experience beyond measure

My Coaching can do all this and more for you!

Coaching is THE way when you want to transform your life much faster, easier and more sustainably than you ever could do it alone or with a self-help book . This applies to all areas of life where people desire growth and success.

Coaching has already a long history in sports, business and life. it is time for our relationships and our sexuality to get the support of a coach, too!

During my 600+ hours of sex, love and relationship coaching certification with the renowned and wonderful Layla Martin, we addressed these topics both from the science perspective of modern brain science, neuro-psychology and state-of-the-art coaching, and from the perspective of ancient Tantric and Taoist teachings that view sexuality as a way of raising consciousness and spiritual fulfillment.

Coaching for Women*

Each woman carries within her the inner Goddess, who guides her steps and turns her life into a feast of love and ecstasy – as soon as she makes contact with her and allows her to take the lead in her life!

I call women who allow their inner goddess to light their way „Embodied Dakinis“

We work in our coaching sessions, among others, on:

  • the awakening of your inner goddess and the deepening of your contact with her
  • the expansion and deepening of your ecstatic and orgasmic potential
  • a positive body image and radical self-love
  • the healing and integration of old wounds and traumas
  • theenhancement of your magnetic charisma and attraction
  • dealing with sexual energy as a life force
  • a more sensual attitude towards life
  • recognizing and setting personal boundaries

These are just some of the topics a coaching session can cover. The whole coaching process is completely individual and custom-tailored to you.

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Coaching for Men*

Conscious, integrated masculinity is a priceless gift for this world. Any man who opposes the millennia-old conditioning of insensitivity without neglecting his inner warrior and who brings powerful, positive changes to the world, deserves my deepest respect and gratitude!

I call these men „Tantric Warriors“

We work in our coaching sessions, among other things, on:

  • a deep connection to your self, your penis and your sexual power
  • an increase in your physical and emotional sensitivity
  • the healing and integration of old wounds and traumas
  • a positive self-image and authentic self-confidence
  • techniques that make you an absolutely remarkable sex god without a shortcoming of your own pleasure
  • methods to use your sexual energy as life energy for more strength and vitality
  • getting rid of performance anxiety
  • lasting longer in a relaxed way
  • understanding women and being able to correctly read their signals
  • skills that help you flirt and find your soulmate
  • getting to know and accessing other, more intense types of orgasms

I wish to see more men in their power and clarity and it is my honor and pleasure to accompany you on this journey!

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Coaching for couples

A healthy relationship is the most wonderful and challenging thing in the world. A conscious love relationship is the biggest growth catalyst – a sacred bond between two free people who choose to walk the path of life together. It is my great passion to help couples discover and live the magic of their connection!

I call this connection „The Sacred Union“

We work in couples coaching, among others, on:

  • establishing meaningful and loving communication patterns
  • healing old wounds to create space for new experiences
  • living freedom AND connectedness at the same time
  • experiencing intimate moments during sex and everyday life
  • deepening or restoring mutual trust
  • reviving the sexual spark
  • upleveling your sexlife from OK to WOW
  • gaining deep, mutual understanding for each other
  • creating a vision that will bind you together
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Non-monogamous couples or constellations

I live in non-monogamous constellations on and off since more than 10 years now. During that time I looked at and played around with different types of non-monogamy. I understand the challenges and frustrations as well as the joys and excitements that come with this lovestyle.

That being said I coach with the utmost respect for the chosen relationship style and don´t see any of them as the holy grail of relationship. What matters most is the ability for open and honest conversation with compassion and empathy to all parties involved.

I support non-monogamous couples or constellations by:

  • becoming aware of the nature of their relationship container
  • opening the relationship gently and respectfully
  • setting boundaries and overcoming boundaries
  • dealing with jealousy and fear of losing
  • handling successful communication with more than one person
  • integrating new partners into an existing relationship
  • exploring and integrating the desires and needs of all parties involved

These are just a few examples that I can help your non-monogamous relationship to thrive and be a fulfilling conscious choice for all of you!

The needs and desires of a non-monogamous constellation vary enormously. This is why I approach this coaching with more flexibility in terms of duration and session content. To get a feel for each other and to explore how I can help in your special circumstances

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How I work

The approach of my coaching is desire-based, loving, transformative and aims to bring you consistently into your own power. This means we are observing what feels right to YOU in your life and in your sexuality and how and who YOU ​​want to be. I’m not telling you what conscious sexuality or relationship looks like, but I’m supporting you in finding out what conscious sexuality means to YOU!

In my work, LALITA means that I am guided by the following qualities:

L = Love

         A = Awareness

      L = Lightness

   I = Intuition

              T = Transformation

         A = Authenticity

I attach great importance to the fact that our cooperation really brings long-term changes for you and that your transformation is sustainable. For this reason I do not offer single sessions!

I offer my support as a 1.5 – 3 months intensive online 1:1 program with weekly sessions (10 sessions)or as a 14-21 day intensive in-person retreat in Guatemala.   

To get to know each other and find out if we want to work with each other and I am the right person for your personality and your concern, I offer you a 1 hour free exploratory session before we start the process, where you will get a taste of how transformative my work is,  I will answer all of your questions and we can find out if the Chemistry between us is right. The coaching relationship in and of itself is one of the proven key factors for the coaching success!

The Coaching Packages include:

  • weekly, high transformative 60 or 120 minute coaching sessions
  • E-Mail or voice mail support, for accountability and if you have any questions or need guidance in between sessions
  • Exercises, meditations and other Tantric and Taoist methods to explore your sexuality in a safe container
  • Custom-tailored, supporting, joyful homeplay exercises between coaching sessions to deepen your transformation
  • Energetic distant healing to resolve and integrate energetic blockages
  • Love, understanding and unconditional acceptance of your individuality
  • Absolute confidentiality and reliability, so you feel completely safe to show yourself with everything there is
  • My expertise, my trained intuition and my wisdom from 7 years of own spiritual practice, 2 intense coaching trainings, 5 years of professional Tantric Bodywork and Energy Healing with people of all kinds
  • Methods that really work and act holistically on all aspects of your being

My Offerings

The Way of the Dakini is a one of a kind hybrid approach of personal high end 1:1 Coaching for clearing and releasing everything that stands between you and your fully liberated self and an Initiation into the most effective and pleasurable Tantric and Taoist tools and techniques available for modern day goddesses.

For more information about the program click here.

The Tantric Warrior Training is a one of a kind hybrid approach of personal high end 1:1 Coaching for clearing and releasing everything that stands between you and your fully liberated self and an Initiation into the most effective and pleasurable Tantric and Taoist tools and techniques available for modern day men.

For more information about the program click here.

The Sacred Union is a one of a kind relationship transformation program where you learn to consciously communicate and connect, invite sensuality into your life and learn high end Tantric tools for couples that accelerate your sexlife from OKAY to WOW!

More Info coming soon!

The Polyamory Coaching is a highly individualized coaching process tailored to your needs and desires.

Whether you are a couple wanting to open your relationship or a polyamorous constellation of any kind looking to improve your communication and relationship to reach a greater level of understanding, compassion and harmony – this coaching is for you!

Up to this point the structure and duration of the Poly Coaching is a bit more free than the 3 months 1:1 Coaching for singles or couples because the needs and desires in this area vary immensely.

It´s best to just drop me a line and arrange an exploratory session right away! You can do that here.

The in-person retreats are following the same structure than the online coaching programs and will be held at the magical lake Atitlan in Guatemala where I currently reside.

The retreats have a duration of 2-3 weeks and are the same investment than the online coaching program.

Both kinds of work have their advantages and disadvantages and mostly it is a matter of personal preference if people choose the online or the in-person journey.

Whether you prefer

1: a very intense, highly transformational in-person kickstart with personal contact and the option to receive a body-based healing approach or

2: to have more time to integrate your coaching experience and love the possibility and receiving coaching in the comfort of your own home

is up to you.

Get in touch to learn more about the in-person retreats.

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