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*** About the healing of the relationship between the Masculine and the Feminine ***

*** About the healing of the relationship between the Masculine and the Feminine  ***

I am trying to formulate a sentence that envelopes my heart desire for my work, my dharma and my mission…

The closest I got so far is:

Healing the world through healing the personal and interpersonal relationship between the masculine and the feminine.

This means I desire to support individuals and couples on their healing journey around the separation wound.

The feeling of being expelled from our tribe is the most excruciating feeling there is – especially in childhood when we make this experience for the first time within our family system…

Love is bound to conditions and not freely given.

We have to obey and hide our true original essence in order to receive the love and care we are dependent on as children…

As adults we take these early wounding into our relationships and recreate the same painful experiences over and over again…

I could speak about WHY we are doing this but this is a topic for another share…

For now I want to speak about healing!

True healing can only come from bringing light into these shadows.

By looking at WHY we are carrying the fear we carry and why we are afraid to speak our truth in especially romantic relationships but also friendships.

By coming together and helping each other heal these deep rooted fears we create a new internal blueprint around intimacy and relating.

And on top of that – by recognizing each other truly and deeply we recognize the divine in ourselves, the other and eventually everything around us!

Only when we create true intimacy we can create true harmony…

And true intimacy comes from radical vulnerability – daring to be fully transparent on the one side and daring to be fully present in holding a safe space for the other to express

It seems like something most people would agree to yet most people are scared shitless by the mere thought of radical vulnerability…

So how do we learn to both share and hold space for our own and the truth of others?!

Just the way we learn everything in life – practice, practice, practice!

The more I connect with my deepest mission these days the more I land over and over again at creating safe spaces for the male and the female to come together to open their hearts…

This is the essence of Tantra – The Yoga of Love

Not better sex and mind-blowing orgasms – these are mere consequences of radical intimacy and radical vulnerability…

The meaning of Tantra is weaving – weaving a net to connect the divine and the worldly realms – connecting the opposites and bringing them back into unity.

Tantra is a non-dual teaching and lineage – means the ultimate truth is that there is only one supreme consciousness that everything springs forth from.

And this supreme consciousness divided itself by choice into the myriads of forms – some of which happen to be men and women on planet earth…

My deepest desire is to practice and keep practicing vulnerability in a safe space to be able to provide the safest container for all of us practicing together!

I as a spaceholder have to lead with my own vulnerability – not the easiest thing to do when you have bullying and all forms of abuse and trauma in your background…

But maybe – most likely – these experiences created the desire for creating safe spaces and containers for others – because it is what I myself need to heal – deeper and deeper…

More and more I desire to take my work into real life instead of doing it online – because I strongly believe we have to come together in person to help each other heal…

I am delighted to see more and more men and women starting to walk the path of deeper intimacy and vulnerability…

We need many many brave souls to question today´s paradigm of relating…

My heart slowly and softly melts resistance around my own fears and desires around radical intimacy…

And the more it does that the more I recognize how much there still is to heal and how much I screwed up in the past.

Screwing up by taking things for granted and playing the blaming game instead of taking the courage to open up first and see if the other feels safe enough with me to follow…

I am ready to step into this mission, my life´s dharma, to explore and heal the wounds of belonging

Are you with me?!

I do hope at least some of you are – and I know for sure I share this dharma with a few of you

All Love
Lucya Lalita

2019-07-16T16:09:20+00:00

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